Day 15: Children

I don't think I can even remember all of the times a child has been my game changer for a day.  While traveling I've often found myself most comfortable staying with friends that have children, and even some baby-sitting after a bad day at work has been a most comforting experience.

Sometimes I wonder if it's because I have a baby button (the button that goes off when we feel the desire to have a baby) or some natural motherly instinct that makes me feel contentment around children, and while I can't pinpoint an exact reason, I just know I love being around these youthful spirits.

After watching baby dedications this morning and hanging out with some classic kids (that may, or may not, be adopted nephews to me), I was thinking about how the joy of the children is contagious to adults.  People who feel like outcasts in their peer groups can, at times, relate to children in a profound way that reassures them of their value on earth. For some, having a child in the room prompts the reminder that they are setting examples and potentially contributing to the molding of young minds.

While I may be independent and enjoy not having to worry about the needs of another being, I also find satisfaction in feeling I'm useful for a purpose beyond me.

And let's accept it, I also enjoy making faces at them - as they tend to mimic faces, gestures and noises.  I can't help but smile way too much for my own good just to see them smile back at me - what a happy moment when they do.

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Also from today... generosity. After spending time with people with a vast array of personalities, some friends of mine bought me dinner, and it actually made me feel so thankful and blessed that I nearly started crying. You just don't know who you'll touch with your generosity or how great the impact will be.